Now it hardly can take out it.Yvonne generally remained the same.But John began to perceive it exactly the opposite.How we have to cope with this banal problem which poisons our social system and threatens force of our national character?As usual, easy to give advice, difficultly to execute it.First, we have to realize that nobody is perfect.It is amazing.We heard this statement of one hundred times, it stuck at us in teeth, but we do not trust it.
It treats percent.It is especially difficult for these people to develop in itself the qualities necessary for the leader.Can imagine, what problems arose at Steve when to him charged to direct group of teenagers that is rather difficult even for born leaders those who enters percent!One of the first skirmishes of Steve with youth group is a good illustration.Somehow Steve invited teenagers to himself home.When they left the house in an internal court yard, he unintentionally heard as some children gossip about the new member of their group.
Therefore, any treatment it is not required.Sometimes only one small egg which is obviously neostarted up.In this case treatment can be demanded, but it should not afflict very much you because it is quite enough one small egg that the boy normally developed and became the father, even in that exceptional case when the second small egg does not appear later.If you did not see one or both small eggs in the boy's scrotum till years, address to the doctor.If your child has neostartedup small eggs, try not to be afflicted because of it and not to excite the child.
Having told about James and Ric, I tried to inform to you complexity of a problem.When on it natural misses and failures are imposed, it turns into real threat to the existence of the child, including also the spiritual party.To help such child to become the integral personality, a lot of time, patience and understanding is necessary.But this purpose is achievable.Children with chronic diseases Difficulties of perception not the only thing that can have impact on behavior of the child.Chronic diseases can also create certain emotional and behavioural problems.
Let the child learn to creep as them and to slip back, to creep through them, let think how to pass an obstacle.Holding hands a convenient support, he starts kneeling.Food.Well drinks from a cup or a drinking bowl which is held by the adult.Can quickly drink to ml of liquid.The child whom accustomed to eat from a spoon in time and to drink from a cup, quicker and better speaks as at him the articulation well develops.After the child learned to sit, feed him it is necessary in a sitting position.
, ; a sample for a vykladyvaniye of subjects of ware from matches fig.; cards with figures from to Occupation course Organizational moment.Put on yourself a bear hat.Ask children to guess and tell into whom you turned in a shebear.Suggest children to remember and tell, what tale of bears you read on last occupation.Suggest children to put on obodochka with ears of bear cubs and to go on a visit to three bears living in a lodge in dark.Suggest children to sit down to have a rest on a clearing carpet and together to tell the fairy tale.
I hate the life!I hate all and all!The only exit to die!I cannot any more!More you will not see me!You believe in resettlement of souls?Sometime, maybe, I will also return to this world!If we do not meet any more, thanks for everything!I bowl off.Bothered!Sharp changes in behavior When people suddenly start behaving unusually, it is a sure sign of that with them something is wrong.Remember: we behave depending on that at present we feel.
Most of children adapted to a high security as they could drink enough milk not to feel hungry within the next hours; so usually also the digestive tract of the newborn works.The person quickly gets used to everything at any age.If to feed us always in precisely determined hours, in these hours we also will feel hungry.But always there were children it was very difficult for them to adapt to a high security in the first months.These children, whose stomachs could not keep the amount of milk sufficient for a onehour break, or what fell asleep, without having managed to be sated, either uneasy children, or such which were tormented by gases.
Quite optimistical picture, isn't that so?But, unfortunately, at the same time, only percent of young people at the age of years can tell that they entrusted the life to Christ or consider themselves as Christians though to some extent.Other percent will hardly sometime find belief in church and the Lord in Whom their parents believe.Why it occurs?Why less and less young people remain believers?To me it is thought that answers to these questions should be looked for in education methods.
Unfortunately, once on Sunday Mike and still the bright boy too loudly stirred and laughed during occupations.The teacher, without reflecting, punished them, having locked one in the room and having forced to write Honor the father and the mother hundreds of times, so far, at last, them parents did not get out.Senselessness and insensibility of this unfair and humiliating punishment led to drama consequences.It caused such anger, pain and disgust in the boy that Mike began to be hostile to everything that is connected with spiritual life.
If you want to use diapers both as towel, and as bedsheets and to erase them every other day or through two, to you, perhaps, twice more their quantity is required.Diapers have to be rather big size х cm.Sweaters and sleeping bags.Buy them at once the big size.Sweaters and jackets have to have rather big opening for the head or they have to be clasped on buttons on a shoulder as children very much do not like to put on and take off clothes through the head.
Kind.And what was a wolf?Angry.Give to each child the picture Kind goat and an angry wolf see fig..Suggest to find an angry wolf and a kind goat.Consider each image.Ask to call mimicry components the frowned eyebrows, evil eyes, a smile.Tell rules of the game: Here two rims.On the first gray ears, they wolf.When I speak: Wolf!, it is necessary to take a hat of a wolf, to put on it and to represent a terrible and angry wolf.
It was pleasant to the Fungus as the Elephant performed his tasks, and decided to send with the Elephant of the assistant.It is a sound which is heard in the words Lamp, a stick, a table.That it for sound?The child answers.There is an Elephant a sound l on the wood, cones, branches are kicked: plaploplu; kluklykla; tlatlytle; slesluslo.The child pronounces syllabic chains, serially clicking fingers.On Slon Road met gnomes.They assemble the train, to let it by the forest railroad.
This method of impact on teenagers is quite sharp and can be applied only as the last resort in difficult circumstances.However teenagers need to know that the main desire of their parents to prepare them for responsible and independent adult life, but not to hold them near itself.You can strengthen the teenager in this knowledge for only some days.For example, opening of its personal bank account, monthly transfer there means, training in an expenditure of money excellent ways to strengthen spirit of cooperation between you and your teenager, together to go to finding of independence by it.
After those days off we with Pat established some kind of ritual to call Carrie every Sunday in the evening that she knew that we think of it, we pray for it and are ready to help everything that with our forces.Other characteristic consists that when young men and girls leave a family, it is necessary for them that everything in it remained still in the same way as was before their leaving.It helps the young man to feel safe.Quite good idea to keep a former situation in the house, especially not to touch the room and personal belongings of the teenager.
To parents it is necessary to cultivate consciously and intentionally in the children ability to think accurately and rationally.Along with it also ability correctly to handle anger takes root.It is hard as the number of people with the expressed antisocial psikhopatiya grows and our children can face them everywhere even in church.WE READ TOGETHER One of the most pleasant and valuable ways to accustom children to clear thinking this joint reading.It is necessary to do it, since infantile age.
I asked: And you told something to the father?Even now tears smothered the boy: No.Unless it not a bright illustration of one more sphere of communication with children, where an eternal stumbling block discipline!The way of reduction to an order of the boy caused in it so acute senses of offense, anger, indignation that he will never forgive to parents and will not forget this sad case unless the psychologist specially will help it.To think only!Passed seven years, and Tom still suffers!
They thought how well he draws more and does the model.Sometimes they praised it and asked to help.The boy started thawing.Eventually he after all so long achieved recognition and friendliness!Feeling strongly in collective, he became more sociable and friendly with companions.Communication of school with life.It is necessary that the school gave to the pupils direct knowledge of surrounding life, of local agriculture, of work of farmers, businessmen and workers that they saw communication between the knowledge gained at school and real life.
or hitting it on a hand, or drawing aside his hand, thereby you only kindle his obstinacy.An onanism in years a consequence of sincere experiences of the child.Children from to years surprisingly adult in many respects.They love, strongly and romantically, people close to them, especially parents.As it is now established, at this age children test similarity of a sexual inclination that is an important step of normal development of the child was considered earlier that anything similar does not occur to teenage age.
And though to this age the majority of traits of character and style of behavior of the teenager are already partially created, all of them still can change.Both parents, and teenagers should not miss this time, strengthening favorable lines and whenever possible correcting the undesirable.COMMITMENT One of the most important aspects of the identity of the teenager is degree of its focus.Anybody and furthermore the teenager, cannot reach in it perfection.Some people are too purposeful, they direct all the efforts and abilities to achievement desirable, whether it be good marks at examinations, the diploma of university or money, excluding thus from the life such not less important things as entertainments, rest and private life.
Such situation irritates and exhausts both the child, and parents see also section .In the majority a case to recover from this habit very simply.The child has to get used to that shout in the middle of the night he will achieve nothing.Let him cry, do not approach him in general.In the first night he can cry minutes though this time will seem to you eternity, in the next night he will cry minutes ten, and in the third, perhaps, at all will not wake up.
!After all also you will not find a such second fox!And the mouse under an oven in a mink drozhmya shivers.To it the cat robber seems: Well and the fat cat was!From where such undertook?!Glazishchi, usishch what!Lapishchey it as attracted me I thought, death to me!How it I from it, from such also was left?!And hare greyish in the wood came running, under a bush was slaughtered, lies, is afraid to sigh, and itself broods: Hunters as trapped me!
If the father died or does not communicate with the daughter, the girl should look for other males suitable for this role to satisfy emotional need for communication with the father.But when the father has harmonious relations with the daughter, he appears the main character which can help the daughter to be prepared for youth in respect of understanding of the female essence.What huge responsibility lays down on the father's shoulders!The father helps the daughter to develop about himself good opinion that he approves her.
Whether your child by heart can learn and tell some short poems?Whether correctly it uses nouns in the speech, that is whether it changes them to numbers for example, a cat and cats, to childbirth a cat and a cat, cases gave to a cat, call a cat, where a cat?Whether your child or better still, the whole words is able to spell?Whether your child consistently to call figures is able to count up to ten and back?May he solve simple problems on subtraction or addition of unit?
The senior child and at the adult can have a headache and a general malaise a day before emergence of rash.But the small child does not notice such symptoms.In the beginning temperature almost normal, but can will increase in the next days.One children feel not bad throughout all disease and temperature does not rise higher than °.Other children feel bad and they have a high temperature.Heatspots usually itch.Need to call the doctor for establishment of the diagnosis and treatment if the child has a rash and temperature or if he badly feels chicken pox can easily be confused with smallpox and other children's diseases.
In these charges there is an element of truth.But if children unanimously aspire to something, we are compelled to recognize that it has for them some positive, constructive value.It is more reasonable to try to give them that they want, in the best form, but we will achieve nothing if we gasp and cackle as nervous hens.Children of all age are full of noble aspirations to great causes which as it seems to them, adults make.At early age it is rather simple to them to copy occupations of adults: to drive trains, to play doctors, etc.
Snachalapodrostok can seem to you already adult, and in a minute he will behave as the small child.It occurs because that before it begins the life, separate of parents, and will become independent, it has to clear, so to speak, the past of problems and the conflicts, especially with parents.When Carrie was years old, once I noticed that she treats me with irritation and some hostility.I asked it: Darling tell me, what I made, what upset or offended you?Without hesitation she reminded me of a case which occurred years ago!
To the husband for sixty, he almost all the year round will see off at dacha: adores digging in the earth, incredibly is proud of own vegetables and fruit, prepares them for the winter the word, with everything it is happy, does not demand anything from the wife, does not prevent to be engaged in affairs.Did not disturb till some time also the younger daughter.However recently got out of hand: is rude, is secretive, shirks school, drags money from the house, all the time is torn to the street.To me with you houses stuffy!
The probability is very great that it will become socially dangerous.Such children are less sensitive and inclined to accuse others.Therefore it is difficult for them to have sense of guilt.And sense of guilt is necessary for development of normal conscientiousness.To us, to parents, it is not necessary to facilitate at all sense of guilt which they can for some reason test.The most effective way to eradicate sense of guilt seriously to punish.When the child sincerely feels guilty for the wrong behavior, punishment and especially such punishment when punish all for offense of one, will destroy all remorse.
Only after the second inoculation it reaches the degree ensuring safety.Therefore is useless to begin an inoculation after the child dangerously wounds himself.In this case the child needs to enter antitetanic serum.So, in a year after an initial inoculation do to the child a repeated inoculation, then the inoculation is repeated by each years.In addition to the main inoculation to the child enter antitetanic toxoid in case of dangerous wound.This additional inoculation increases at once its immunity.
When newborns are able to suck a breast, they can be put to a breast together.Mother needs a convenient chair with good armrests.Three provisions are possible: If mother can sit, having leaned back on a chair back, or to recline in it, it can hold twins on each hand.Mother can directly sit, having enclosed on both parties of a pillow on which put twins, on one from each party, feet towards mother's back, and the head mother hands presses to a breast.It is also possible to put twins on mother's knees, one partially atop another, but the heads in different directions.
If not to solve a problem to seventeen eighteenyearold I will increase, these installations can become deeply taken roots traits of character.If we handle anger as it befits mature people, we give to the children the greatest of all gifts which only the loving parents can give to the children.This gift the mighty vital force thanks to which they it is reached a maturity, passing all those sad tests which fall to lot of many adults.One of the biggest pleasures in life is to observe how our children grow up in the careful, conscientious, vigorous people able to love and be darlings.
Between them constantly there were disagreements.When Bill and Deniz argued, and their parents pressed on them, Bill was angry, and Deniz had sense of guilt.As soon as there was an opportunity, Bill left a family, without having accepted any parental moral values.And why it had to accept them?His parents were so occupied with the solution of its destiny that seldom let to it know that love it.However when Deniza's problems emerged on a surface, and all family came to consultation, many questions were resolved.
The You Will Carry Out Orders of God or Will Die and Will Get to a Hell installation on different teenagers makes different impact.The similar instruction will cause anger and irritation in percent, and they as soon as opportunity is presented, will begin to do the absolutely opposite.percent, on the contrary, will be frightened to death and will have a strong feeling of fault.Being under continuous influence of Christian negativism, they will suffer very much.Instead of seeking to learn love of God, they, most likely, will live in constant alarm and fear.
The child is very subject to negative influences outside the house.Researches of this question showed that some children in years tried alcohol and drugs.The good way to learn and bring up the child is to share with each other events of every day.Tell the child about those events which happened to you in a day, but thus consider, of course, its age level.So the child learns to make use of your experience and adopts your spiritual installations.If you handle the needs to God, tell the child, what results of your prayers.
What did they make?They decided that the huge ship comes nearer to them.And how it is possible to call our boat?Sailing vessel.Let's tell inhabitants of the island that is at the ship.And if in the word there is a sound r, repeat this word more loudly that all heard.Listen attentively: case, deck, cabin, cabin, window, ladder, steering wheel, boat, pipe, pipe, bridge.The child repeats words with a sound r.And what is at our sailing vessel?Case, sail.
Some children use some months generally one hand, and then pass to the second.Still the scientists dealing with this issue considered that this inherited quality which is shown in each person sooner or later.Specialists in the children's speech and reading believed that attempts to force the lefthander to use the right hand led to stutter and difficulties in reading.They considered that it is better to leave the child alone for fear to injure the alleged lefthander.
Usually consider that sexual education is a lecture at school or serious conversation with parents of the house.It is too narrow approach to a problem of sexual education.The child learns about various vital things throughout all the life.If children do not learn it in an amicable way, they learn it in the unhealthy way.Sexual education is much broader, than a question of that, from where there are children.It includes questions of relationship of men and women and of their corresponding appointment in lives.
Similarly it is necessary to approach and those children who are included into the first group.It even is more applicable to them.They are so inclined to have sense of guilt that the rigid, authoritative relation can do them real harm, such which will prevent them to learn to think and make decisions independently.These all denying children Allow me to tell you about very difficult, selfconfident people of the average years entering into the second group who found Christ only recently.
And Jennifer, unfortunately, as many girls at teenage age, tried to replace love to the father with attention of boys.Jennifer acted according to subconsciousness of her mother, her nonverbal instructions.Mother realized own unhappy family life which led to the unsuccessful sexual relations with the spouse.She realized warm proximity of the daughter with the father.But she did not realize all power of jealousy of Jennifer, the influence on sexual behavior of the daughter.In such cases it is useless and extremely harmfully to reproach each family member especially mother with mistakes and the wrong behavior.
Believe, the mentally retarded child same, as all other children.Watch it to understand that gives it pleasure.Buy to it toys for game of the house and on the street which you consider useful.Help it to make friends with whom he with pleasure will play whenever possible every day.Teach it to do everything that he tries to comprehend.Extremely important to define it in the corresponding class.If there is a suspicion on intellectual inferiority of the child, it is necessary to consult to the psychiatrist or the psychologist, resolving an issue of education of the child.
Or such, desired for us, parents, and passion of the child so rare today to reading.Be not under a delusion: sometimes reading becomes purely mechanical process at the child; he as Gogol Parsley reads because that it is pleasant to him as small letters in words develop, and the sense read escapes or at all to it is not interesting.The child reads everything newspapers, dictionaries, textbooks.Such reading has even designation on a vernacular an avid reading symptom.Also it is a symptom of serious mental violation.
The child is already rather frightened of own thoughts.Stop being at war with it concerning food or wet panties.Achieve good behavior by means of severity and sequence.It is better, than to allow the child to make a bad act, and then to shame and reproach it for it.The child takes threat especially hard that you stop loving him if he behaves badly.Try to provide to the child rich, interesting life and daily society of other children.The more it is absorbed by games and plans for the future, the less he will think of the internal fears.
Here also there came the most right moment for David's education.There was also other reason for which I rejoiced when his anger came to light.The matter is that the more anger it will be splashed out in words, the less it remains to be shown then through lie, theft, sex, drugs and all other examples of the passive and aggressive behavior which is so extended today.Colleagues parents!I know that it is hard to acquire it and that at this stage you can have serious questions.
He tries to get rid such thoughts after all his father after all much more strongly and more, than it, but these thoughts again come to him in a dream.Possibly, the main reason of bad dreams which often torment boys at this age, the mixed feeling of love, jealousy and fear in relation to the father is.Similarly developing normally little girl has proprietary feelings in relation to the father.Sometimes she wants that something happened to mother whom she loves that the father belonged only to it.
Our following step: let's wonder, whether contact of an eye in eyes is necessary to this child, whether there is at it a need for physical contact, whether it is necessary to concentrate on it close attention?Well, whether its emotional tank is devastated and whether it is time to fill up it?We, parents, have to be sure that if the bad behavior of the kid though is to some extent caused by needs of the child that is listed above, we have to satisfy them first of all.Carrying out properly the parental responsibilities, we should not continue to correct behavior of the child before we help it that is vital for it and it is necessary.
Within one period of wakefulness of toys should not be much: the abundance of impressions conducts to overfatigue, excessive excitement of the child.Periodically toys should be changed that also maintains activity and prevents emergence of exhaustion.Purchase of toys.In months the child struck in the hanging subject in search of new feelings, then it was enough at once to thrust into a mouth.In months it attentively gets acquainted with a subject.Before putting a rattle in a mouth, the child within minutes shakes it, twirls, brings to the person, in detail studies and only then pulls in a mouth fig.
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